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Is
something unsettling you about settling
down?
So! You have decided to go ahead and get
entangled by the holy knot. Well! We are
first going to compliment you on that brave
decision and then help you out to get a
little unsettled about getting settled,
to use the language that your parents would
approve of, " Beta! / Beti!
It's about time you got settled! "
Well, your parents are not too far away
off the mark when they use that phrase.
Marriage involves quite a bit about settling
in with the right partner and being
the right partner for the man
or woman in your life. There was a time
when Indian society was famous for their
swayamvar arrangements, when choice was
a famous five-letter word judiciously exercised.
Why then has marriage become such a complicated
issue in the present times?
Knots and Crosses
The advice to you is to think straight and
get your fundas right about the knots and
ties that will bind you to your life partner.
After all, you want the holy knot that you
plan to tie to become a flowing yarn of
happiness, not an unbearable cross of burden!
A step by step set of simple procedures
What if you were asked simple questions,
like how do you drive a car, how do you
operate a computer, how do you open a bank
account, how do you write a letter? For
most of us, all these questions would make
us explain a set of simple procedures that
need to be followed everyday in our lives
as part of our day-to-day activities.
Getting to know the ground rules
that make a great marriage
What a lot of people miss out is that the
ground rules for marriage are just the same
too. Just as there is a step by step procedure
for all those events and processes in life,
there a good blue print and action plan
for a great marriage. Follow the plan and
you are going to get the results you are
looking for!
An Action Plan for Marriage
To decide who's the right guy or gal for
you is indeed a tough job when you think
about the enormously difficult exercise
that the task involves. Searching for a
potential partner can be an awfully cumbersome
act that can turn out to be a real surprise,
shock or even disappointment! Because, for
more than 90% of the people all over the
world, it is very difficult to say clearly
and correctly, exactly the kind of person
that they are AND the kind of person that
they are looking for!
Isn't that amazing when all through our
lives, we wander through talking about marriage?
The movies, magazines, books, music albums
are all so full of this magic word, marriage.
Yet, to those who are in the process of
looking for their perfect mates, there is
an awful scarcity of vital information that
can educate, inform and guide them correctly
and clearly through this most beautiful
experience in life.! |