What’s the solution? Prevention or Cure?

If compromise is no longer the ideal way out of an argument or trouble in a marriage, what else is?

The wisest route to a blissful marriage is careful selection of your life partner before you enter a relation. You should take extra care in choosing the person you marry, as it’s a decision that shall make or mar the rest of your life. Reveal your preferences, likes, dislikes, opinions, habits and expectations beforehand and match it with the other person’s. The unique personality matching feature at Vivah helps you in choosing the most compatible match for you from all of the possible profiles on the site. Selecting the right partner means marrying the one whose personality compliments your own, and that assures a more sensible match. When personalities match, understanding and relating to each other comes much more easily and naturally.

We no longer have to rely on people's abilities to compromise in the face of intense emotional loads. We can lighten the emotional loads with relative ease thereby facilitating understanding and cooperation. This allows the relationship to flower and produce love instead of luggage, bliss instead of baggage, freedom instead of friction. Selection of your partner in accordance to your personality and realising your compatibility is definitely the first and the best step to a harmonious marriage.

No one is perfect and that remains a norm. No matter how hard you try, or how loving and respectful of a couple you are, there is a disagreement once in a while. Such arguments should not harm your relationship.

Respect, mutual trust and love above all should be the guidelines to conform to and let your marriage that was matched in heaven be blessed on the earth.