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For the amount of people that are posting
their matrimonial profiles on Vivah.com
everyday, there are thousands who are looking
at the profiles too! By creating an impressive
profile for yourself, you get to reach these
thousands of people, who are out there,
seeking their potential life partners and
matching your requirements. What is important
for you therefore is to make sure that despite
being surrounded by millions of other matrimonial
profiles, you can make sure that people
notice you. We have some useful tips to
get you started:
Your Profile
On any matrimonial matchmaking website,
browsing through search results is like
being in a room full of potential mates;
with so many to choose from, you have to
depend on first impressions. The whole purpose
of posting your details on a matrimonial
website is to draw someone's attention and
make them want to learn more about you;
Because no matter how good or smart or eloquent
you might be in your personal life, no one
would get to discover it until they happen
to browse your profile. This should not,
however, make you extra-conscious or over-judgemental
about yourself; Just be open and honest.
You could seek a friend's help to write
your profile, and have another friend read
it afterwards. Keep the following tips in
mind to help you create a winning profile:
Be Precise
Avoid beating around the bush by complaining
about how difficult it is to write about
yourself or find a quality mate, as an introductory
remark to your profile; everyone has to
do just that. Instead, get straight to the
point, right into describing yourself in
plain, simple words.
Focus on your positive traits
Each one of us has something 'exclusive'
about ourselves that makes us 'unique' and
'different' from others. Write about your
hobbies, areas of interest, work, travels
or other pursuits-whatever it is that makes
you special and that will appeal all those
browsing your profile. While you write,
think about your ideal match, and write
as though you were talking specifically
to that person.
Be honest and realistic
While interacting on the Internet, many
a times, people tend to forget or choose
to ignore the element of 'realism' and write
or talk things which they either fancy doing
themselves or simply like, with the sole
purpose of impressing others. Some people
engaged in casual flirting might get away
with it, since they do not intend to meet
that person in the real world and do not
have the fear of being exposed. But, when
you are visiting a website with the purpose
of finding your life partner, such an attitude
will prove detrimental. Remember that the
person(s) browsing through your profile
will assume everything you write to be true;
And once you decide to meet him/her offline,
you don't want them to get disillusioned
with you or put an end to a potential relationship
at a decisive point. Be honest. Seek pride
in yourself. Let others choose you for what
you are, rather than what you are not.
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