| Be
frank, simple and conversational
How many times have you come across profiles
that try to impress others by using heavy,
ornamental words-words that are jargons,
used in the wrong context or are misspelled?
Or maybe you've come across profiles that
are vague, meagre and say too little, leaving
you wondering why anyone would want to contact
this person? Instead of making a positive
impact, such tactics might ruin the impression.
Your profile should neither be too long
and verbosive nor too short and superficial.
It should be clear and simple and just enough
to get your message across. Use words that
you use while conversing with people normally
and which come out of your mouth naturally.
Remember-simplicity is a great virtue in
itself!
Describe what you're seeking in
your life mate and relationship
Don't be shy or apprehensive about mentioning
what you're looking out for in your potential
match. Talk about the qualities that you
consider important in a relationship, be
it commitment, fidelity, mental compatibility,
physical appearance, intelligence, love,
romance, honesty, ability to communicate
and listen or a good sense of humour. Reflect
some thoughts on why you think the specific
quality (ies) is/are of importance to you
and to what extent they matter to you in
your choice of a life partner.
Check your spellings and grammar
To the people reading your profile, your
profile is like a peephole to your persona
and gives them an idea about what to expect
from you in an offline communication; Each
word mentioned in your profile serves as
a measure for your personality, your breeding
and your ability to communicate. No matter
how unfair it might seem, profiles with
spelling mistakes or incomplete sentences
can make people judge you as being uneducated
or illiterate. Take a few extra minutes
to check your spelling. Try writing your
profile in a word file; running spell check,
making corrections and copying the final
text into your profile.
Wondering how to get started? Click here
to fill in the Vivah registration form and
submit your complete profile by following
these simple tips. Before you even know,
you’ll be the ‘most-sought-after’
on Vivah.com! |