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“The
spaces between your fingers were created
so another’s could fill them in”
if you agree read below….
Good looks, an impressive personality,
capacity to carry oneself with panache,
are norms that the present generation
seems to swear by.
But probably in the
zeal to promote the shell, are many forgetting
the real sense of beauty -
Inner self,
Soul,
Godliness.
“We come to love not by finding
a perfect person but by loving an imperfect
person perfectly”!
When you marry some one, once your basic
criteria for a partner are met, the base
for search should then move to
“connectivity”, do
your souls meet? For two souls to meet
even an entire life can fall short or
then even the first meeting can make it
possible.
They say true love starts somewhere
with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends
with a tear.
Whenever in the past souls have met its
created history. We’ve all known
of poetry romance, hard core fanatics
like Laila- majnu, Romeo -Juliet etc.
What was special about these lovers was
sacrifice in love was not selfish. Each
gave the others choice more credence than
their own,
In most couple’s today the essence
of sacrifice seems to vanish. “I”
comes before us.
“Before I get my bread ill serve
you your cake- this is the freshness of
love that lasts!”
For both partners forgoing their self-interest
for the benefit of the relation seems
to do the trick. An important cue-
Don’t ever feel your doing your
partner a favor by changing something
they didn’t like about you actually
your doing the relation a favor which
is equally yours. So stop mentally calculating
the number of favors you did last week
& he didn’t return back half.
By calculating or mentally rote learning
the good’s you do to him & never
get anything in return your sub- consciously
poisoning an otherwise innocent mind who
is only being caring towards the partner-
so as they say
“Never frown as you don’t
know who must be falling in love with
your smile.”
Doing this you’re slowly losing the beauty of love,
the oaths of selfless love which a couple pledges by.
You make all the sacrifices: that’s not true!
Life itself is a sacrifice & by living
in a monogamous relation with you, your
partner is equally contributing too!
It’s like that - “the
person who can make you cry most is also
the one who knows best to wipe your tears.”
When you’re the partner having maximum
demands, obviously the accompanying sorrow
is as gigantic (as it may appear to you)!
More over the difference in a man &
woman as created by god is there to stay.
Genetically men & women are not meant
to be…..
So we have to fight our DNA models to
live under a roof together.
So remember “the spaces between
your fingers were created so another’s
could fill them in”.
Synopsis: One and one makes eleven
so try living as many happy moments in
one life & make the most of your poetry
romance.
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