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Still not tied the Knot?
Every day,
there is somebody in some corner of the
world getting attached while in the neighbouring
corner there is somebody either unattached
or somebody all set to get detached.
Relationships never follow a pattern of
uniformity universally! It varies individually.
According to the human psychologist Abraham
Maslow’s pyramid representing the
‘Hierarchy of Human Needs’,
the need to belong, to be loved and to affiliate
with someone is slotted as man’s third
most prioritised need.
In most cultures, especially Indian, this
need culminates as marriage when the individual
reaches the eligible age. Most people get
married. Some choose the conservative arranged
marriages while others prefer self matched
marriages.
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There is also a section of the population
that remains unmarried for reasons of its
own. Marriage is not a must but is not a must-not
either.
Are you among those who are unmarried-for-a-reason
or don’t-want-to-get-married
woman? What’s the reason behind
your single status?
Marriage need not add to your problems, but
could actually be your solution or even the
door to the undiscovered land of self-righteous
companionship that shall last forever.
Let’s take a close look into the most
probable motives that has deterred you from
donning the much coveted, cherished trousseau
of a bride and assure you as to why
you could be changing your mind regarding
it.
Click on the link relevant to you
Reason: AGE
• I am too old to get
married. Click
Reason: PHYSICAL
• I am fat / slim / have a physical
problem and I have the impression
that no guy in his right
mind will marry me. Click
Reason: WORK RELATED
• My job / business
is more important than the
effort of finding my Mr. Right. Click
• I am too busy in
my professional life to find
my Mr. Right. Click
Reason: PREFERENCES / PRIORITIES
• I am a perfectionist.
I am too rigid in my
preferences of my life partner. Click
• I couldn’t find
the right person to marry
and have now lost the chance.
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• I have passed the marriage age because
of my family’s priorities.
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Reason: EXPERIENCES OF OTHER MARRIED
COUPLES
• The bad experiences
of other married couples
have made me rigid on my
decision of not getting
married. Click
Reason: IMPORTANCE OF MARRIAGE
• I think marriage is not
a must in life.
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• I think marriage is not
a must if I don’t
find the right person.
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Reason: UNCOMFORTABLE
• I am uneasy / uncomfortable
in a committed relationship.
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• I am afraid / uncomfortable
of taking responsibilities
that come after marriage. Click
• I am uncomfortable to move
to a different location / away from my social
life / my family and friends,
whom I have lived all my life with. Click
Reason: DIVORCEE
• I am a divorcee whose first
marriage didn’t work out. I
am afraid the second
one could be a
failure too. Click
Reason: WIDOW
• I am a widow and I think it’s
all over. Click
Conclusion
Every problem has a solution and in most circumstances
it is up to you to find the most convenient
one. There are also problems, which have not
one, but several sensible solutions and deciding
between them can certainly tough.
When it comes to marriage and a life partner,
it can be the toughest. Then again, it’s
always only one cinderella whose foot fits
the shoe and you have to try several feet
before finding the right one.
The world’s a very wide place. It is
easier and much more merrier finding your
Mr. Right by being positive and willing. After
all nothing comes easy, especially the BEST!
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