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Yours
truly, in love…
The
compatibility factor in married life |
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The pride
of India, Taj Mahal
Shakespeare’s magnum opus, Romeo
Juliet
Sarat Chandra’s immortal tragedy, Devdas
The common element in all of these is the
undying and true love between a couple. Love,
when defined, comes to mean as a tender and
affectionate feeling for another person. When
the self takes a backseat and you put the
other person ahead, that’s love.
True love is the most quoted, searched and
wanted of all the riches of the world. It
is celebrated as a virtue and treasured as
a fortune.
If love itself is the honest feeling towards
another person, then what is True Love?
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True love in other words is ’Love for
real’
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Love for one another after the honeymoon is
over
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When there is love without candle lit dinners
and moon light muses
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Love that survives after the initial charm
fades away
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Love that survives after passion disappears
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Love for one other amidst real life situations,
hardships and pain
True love is essential for a relationship
to last and grow. It is like the soul of a
being. Air, water and shelter come after the
soul. If the soul is lost, nothing remains.
If the soul remains, everything else can be
gained. If there’s true love in a relationship
it shall cross any hurdles with ease and only
grow in the process.
True
Love is not something that you ’fall
into’ or ’fall out of’.
It does not match up with any of these so-called
definitions of love that we see now-a-days.
Every person’s love is different and
yet so similar. Love is a very very personal
experience, which is as unique as the person
is.
True love does not come from instant attraction
nor is it a relationship from the past life
that shall be recognised at first glance of
a person. It’s a very slow process which
builds and grows on its own through interaction
and communication. It involves understanding
and undergoing of various types of emotions.
It is ‘trusting to not worry’,
‘understanding to relate’ and
‘strength to be able to make it through
the tough times’ in order to be together
for the good times. True love is a real response
to a wholesome comfortable relationship.
When partners are nice to each other, have
real respect for each other, have real trust
in each other, true love generally builds
over time. |
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